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    My big, fat UP adventure: Summer BOW edition

    6/10/2014

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    This was my first BOW (Becoming an Outdoors Woman) Michigan event, and to make the trip more fun (and complement my occasional introvert tendencies) I invited one of my favorite outdoors-loving ladies, Sarah Pike, to come along. Like me, Sarah is left-handed, hates snoring and is chronically early, three of my favorite qualities in a person.

    The facility
    The Bay Cliff Health Camp is a little piece of Upper Peninsula paradise, situated on a cliff overlooking Lake Superior (many of us gathered in the mornings to take in the view before breakfast – see picture above). It was originally founded by two nurses in 1934 as a camp for sick children, and still operates today.

    Classes
    I signed up for three courses: Wilderness Survival, Kayaking, Hiking & Backpacking and Map & Compass. I really wanted to take Mountain Biking and Wilderness First Aid, but alas, there were only so many hours in the day.

    Taught by husband and wife team Tara and David, the class was designed to give us the skills to keep us alive for a couple of days — not to survive out in the woods long-term (so much for my dreams of surviving zombie apocalypse). We went through the key elements of a survival kit, built an emergency shelter, tried out several fire starters and emergency tinder (including corn chips and cotton balls soaked in petroleum jelly), and learned the single most critical survival skill:tell someone where you’ll be going and when you’ll be back.

    After class, Sarah and I promptly forgot this advice jumped on our mountain bikes and pedaled out to a nearby lighthouse before dinner, without telling a soul. We also found this strange Lord-of-the-Rings-gone-wrong marker, which Sarah and Lauren (more on her in a minute) obsessed about all weekend, much to my dismay. I don’t even know why I’m mentioning this, because it will do nothing but encourage them. Whatever, it was so weird I have to share:

    Instructors 
    Ann, Monica and Linda brought such an amazing energy to the class, I didn’t really mind the fact that the wind was blowing so hard across Lake Independence as to make paddling a real chore. When teaching us how to move our bodies, Linda used the metaphor “Like farting on a bar stool,” which was so awesome and unexpected that I doubt any of us will ever paddle — or sit on a bar stool — the same way again. Lauren, who’s dry sense of humor pretty much made the weekend, took this picture.

    After lunch on Saturday was hiking with instructors Kate and Michelle, who were both incredibly knowledgable (and funny, in a very UP-tastic sort of way). Since Kate regularly leads Boy Scouts on backpacking trips, we all got our own frame backpack, and then headed out to a portion of the North Country Trailfor a short hike along the Little Garlic river, which was the highlight of the trip for me. The woods were gorgeous, and I learned about what kind of trail food packs best, what both Kate and Michelle considered their “luxury” items (as a vegetarian, Kate likes her own cooking pot, where Michelle brings a sleeping mat that also converts into a camp chair) and how to read trail blazes along the way.

    Map & compass
    A very basic course in reading maps and using a compass, this was essentially the third time I’ve tried to learn how to use a compass (the first being when I was in the Army and the second when I participated in an adventure race a few years ago).  Guys, I’m REALLY bad with a map. After taking the class, I do feel like I know more about maps & compasses, but I’ve also decided that maybe I’m just a GPS kind of gal.

    Summary
    It’s worth mentioning that on Saturday night Sarah and I, along with our awesome roommate/Forest Service employee/snowboard instructor Tara, decided to go into town for drinks. We met a few rowdy ladies from Toledo (and we thought WE had a long drive), including aforementioned Lauren, at the Lumberjack bar (which was the site of a murder and subsequent Gregory Peck movie). Sarah, Tara and I then went on a rather ambitious night hike with a group from BOW to a local waterfall, which forced me to become friendly with no less than 1,865,402 upper peninsula mosquitos. Thank God for DEET (and Tara, who all but picked the mosquito carcasses out of my eyeballs).

    Overall, it was a great experience and a great deal too, at $180. The event was well run, staff friendly, and the facilities were clean and comfortable (we stayed in dorm-style rooms). There were women from all over the state, with plenty of representation from the baby boomer generation. I think Sarah probably would have liked some more advanced classes, but that’s what the Beyond BOW programs are for — I’m looking forward to participating in November’s backing trip in the Porcupine Mountains this fall.

    Can’t wait to do it again in the Winter program!


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    3 compelling reasons to use morning pages (+ 9 tips to make it easier)

    6/9/2014

     
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    Recording your thoughts and intentions is one of the most powerful personal (not to mention cheap and easy) growth tools available. Not only does it reduce stress and increase self-esteem, it creates a framework on which you can build not only your day — but also your life. Morning pages, a specific exercise design by Julia Cameron, in her book The Artist's Way, offers a way to record your thoughts and intentions in a very specific way. Here's how the daily process works:

    • You must write 3 pages — Even if it's three pages of "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO WRITE" written over and over again. Complaining and self-hate are even okay, if that's what feels like coming out. Whatever's in your head, put it down.
    • You must write longhand — Typing doesn't work when it comes to learning and memory, two of morning pages' biggest benefits. Get a pen and notebook, and don't stop until you've filled your three pages.
    • You must write in the morning — Ideally you want to write before you do anything else, though personally, I can barely make coffee before having my coffee, so I always have a hot cup of joe next to me when I sit down to write every morning.
    • It's just for you — No one else reads it. In fact, Cameron recommends that even you don't go back and read them, at least not for a long time. I've found this is sound advice; going back and reading just invites unneccessary self-judging and backtracking. It's the process of writing that's important, not the specific words you put down.


    Essentially, morning pages are just a way of emptying your head, especially if your head is full of anxiety and judginess and mean little thoughts.  Clean all  that negativity out with the mental mop that is morning pages. Here's why it works:

    Morning pages force you to be honest with yourself
    And let's face it, we all spend a lot of time being less than honest with ourselves. With a regular practice of morning pages, you start to realize the truth about what's working and not working in your life. Really, you can only complain about something so long before you feel motivated to do something about it, even if complaining is only in secret, tucked away in a notebook that only you can see.

    Morning pages force you to brainstorm solutions
    For many people, those "ah-ha moments" often show up during showers, commutes and runs — those times when your brain has a little space to move around and stretch. Morning pages put those moments into overdrive, giving you more direct access to your creative, subconscious self, where often all the good stuff hides. You'll gain clarity and new insights, simply by writing things down and analyzing them. It's a special kind of magic, where you get big, powerful ideas or inspiration to take action through a relatively simple process, where brilliant flashes of insight show up right in the middle of the sentence you're writing.

    Once you've arrived, it's hard to go back. 
    The journey of writing your morning pages regularly (dare I say religiously?) will create a change in you that is irreversible.  By writing down your hopes, fears and how annoying your sister can be, you give yourself permission to be exactly who you are, practicing radical self-acceptance in a safe and limited environment. The next natural step is to take it beyond your journal out into the real world, where you can honor your truth and express what it means to be you. Going back to your old life isn't really an option.

    9 tips to enhance your morning pages experience

    Don't know where to start? Here are some tips to get you started:

    1. Start writing about where you are in your life at this moment. Start where you are. That's good advice for life in general. Write about what's bothering you, why you're stuck, where'd you like to go, when you'd like to get there and how that might happen. Start with the weather, if you have to.

    2. Don't edit, censor yourself or worry about grammar. Worrying about that stuff is unneccessary and blocks you from where you're trying to go. Just let it flow, allowing stream-of-consciousness to take over. The more you censor yourself, the less effective you'll be, especially at first.

    3. Try writing with your non-dominant hand. Oh, hello there inner child! You were here hanging out all along? Wow, you've got some issues I didn't even know were there! Writing with your non-dominant hand is just another path to your subconscious. Try it and see what happens.

    4. End with gratitude. The research here is pretty clear: by writing down and clearly acknowledging the things you're grateful for, you'll increase your happiness and well-being. It doesn't have to be complicated, just a few bullet points is fine.

    5. Doodle. Even if it's just stick figures or that puppy you learned to draw in middle school using six circles (does anyone else know what I'm talking about here?), drawing shapes and even using color engages a different part of your brain. Sometimes a picture just better conveys what it is you're feeling.

    6. Go outside. We here at the Outdoor Book Club are obviously big proponents of taking it outside. Even if it's just on your porch or your picnic table, connecting with the sky, the seasons and the weather reminds you that the world is a big and mysterious place.

    7. Acknowledge your successes every once in a while. It doesn't have to get in the way of your stream-of-consciousness honesty session, but don't forget to add a little sunshine when appropriate. So many of us fail to see where we're making progress and how hard that progress was to achieve. Writing it in your morning pages might remind you of exactly how far you've come.

    8. Try writing in the third person. Writing in the third person  gives you some distance and perspective you might not otherwise see, especially if it's something hard or something that's really bothering you.

    9. Buy a beautiful journal or a nice pen. I've gotten to the point where a drugstore spiral bound notebook works perfectly for me, but I really do love writing with a nice pen.  Whatever it is that's going to motivate you to keep up the practice, especially in those first few critical weeks (remember, it takes 30 days to create a habit).

    Sounds simple, right? 
    It is. Don't make it harder than it has to be. Just get up a little bit early and do yourself this one favor. It's one of the easiest and most rewarding ways to improve your life. It doesn't matter if you're a writer or a scientist or a prisoner, morning pages will give you the context and clarity you need to make some real change in your life.

    A decidedly hipster twist on the hobo pie

    6/7/2014

     

    A decidedly hipster twist on the hobo pie

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    So I just came across this recipe on Sunset's website (have you ordered your subscription yet?), and just had to share: Eggplant and tofu hobo bundles. Enjoy!

    INGREDIENTS

    TOFU AND EGGPLANT
    • 20 ounces firm tofu, cut into 16 chunks
    • 12 ounces Asian eggplant, quartered lengthwise and cut into chunks
    • 2 tablespoons minced ginger
    • 2 tablespoons minced garlic
    • 1/4 cup reduced-sodium soy sauce
    • 5 tablespoons vegetable oil
    • 2 green onions, chopped


    SALAD AND SERVING
    • 1 English cucumber, halved and cut into chunks
    • 1 cup cilantro leaves
    • 1 cup whole dill sprigs
    • 1 red jalapeño chile, halved and sliced
    • 2 tablespoons lime juice
    • 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
    • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
    • Cooked rice and soy sauce


    Preparation
    1. Make tofu and eggplant: Seal ingredients in a resealable plastic bag, turn, and chill at least 1 hour. (In my world, this means putting it in the cooler before you head to the campsite/cottage.)
    2. Heat grill to high (450° to 550°; you can hold your hand 5 in. above cooking grate only 2 to 4 seconds). Divide tofu mixture among 4 large squares of foil and seal securely. Grill bundles, turning once, until eggplant is tender when pierced, about 10 minutes. (In camping lino? This means placing in the coals of a bonfire that's been buring for at least 15 minutes, probably longer.)
    3. Make salad: Mix all ingredients except rice and soy sauce. Do this while your bundles are cooking.
    4. Unwrap bundles and top with salad. Serve with rice and soy sauce.

    Upgrade your gear: lust-worthy gadgets for hiking & camping

    6/5/2014

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    Summer is all about being outside, disconnecting from the hassles of every day life and just enjoying all that nature has to offer. Still, who wants to be uncomfortable? Add these gadgets and gear to your packing list to maximize your adventure, fun and comfort  in the great outdoors.

    Wine glass clamp ($3.50 via Joyus)This clamp, which comes in an array of colors, securely fits on to a variety of camp chairs to hold your stemmed wine glass. No more knocking your glass over in the dark after you've set it at your feet. Great for tailgating and backyard barbeques too.

    Foldable utility wagon ($41.99; Amazon)This little red wagon is great for hauling gear to the campsite, groceries from the car or coolers to the tailgate/picnic site. Folds up and fits nicely in your trunk or gear box.

    Silicone wine glasses ($19.95 for two; reuseit.com)Obviously, wine is a theme here. These unbreakable, easily washed glasses are made from BPA-free and hypoallergenic food-grade silicone that can withstand both hot and cold temperatures, each wine glass is dishwasher safe. Available in both red and white wine glass sizes.

    iKeep ($21.99 via Poldera)Next to losing my kids, losing my cell phone comes a close second in terms of things that make me crazy. This handy little lock keeps your cell phone secure, whether walking in the woods or attending a music festival.
     
    Kayak sail ($67.67 via Amazon)I can't wait to try these out. The universal sail is designed to harness the wind for extra power. Compact and easy to use, you'll be cruising around Lake Superior with ease.

    Dog backpack ($63.96 via Amazon)

    Hiking with your dog? Make him do his fair share (which he'll love) with this dog back pack. The lightweight harness provides stability and even weight distribution so your pooch will be comfortable, and a handle on the top makes it easy to grab Fido and pull him to safety when needed. Comes in a variety of colors and sizes.

    Ultimate inflatable mattress ($99 via Amazon)It might not be the lightest mat on the market, but it's still a great backpacking option (worth the little bit of extra weight) This self-contained mattress has its own hand pump and is environmentally friendly. Perfect for those of us who appreciate a good night's sleep when out on the trail.

    Camping hammock ($160 via Amazon)

    My friend Sarah, a camping pro and the tomboy yin to my glamping yang, swears by these. Fits one person and packs down to the size of a softball. Make sure you get the harness that goes with it. Strong & light.

    Collapsible fabric water bucket ($15.58 via Amazon) I saw this demonstrated in a recent backpacking trip and decided I needed to add one to my gear box. What's nice about a fabric bucket is you can pull down on the bottom of the bucket to create a sort of cone, so that all the silt & sand sinks to the bottom, making it easier on your water filtration pump. Plus it packs down small so as not to take up a bunch of room in your pack.
     
    Biolite woodburning campstove ($129.95 via Amazon)I've heard a lot of outdoorswomen lusting after this great little stove. Besides charging your phone, this little stove doesn't require you to carry fuel with you, which is nice. Grab a bunch of sticks to cook your meal AND charge your phone or headlamp. (Quick tip: Recently a wilderness survival instructor told me that these days you can almost always get a text message out in an emergency, even if you don't have a phone signal.)

    Outdoor speaker ($129.95 via Amazon)

    It's a little pricey, but for those of us who can't hold a tune but still like a little music around the campfire, this little guy will do the trick nicely. The water-resistant Bluetooth speaker boosts sound waves with a reach of 32 feet, and you can mount it on bikes or hook on backpacks, plus it has a rechargeable battery life of 16 hours. 

    A tent that looks like a book Okay, this is more for fun than anything. You'll definitely be the talk of the campground with this smartypants shelter. A luxury item at over $400, it's definitely a splurge for your next glamping trip.


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    Lady tribes: How to make the most of your female friendships

    6/2/2014

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    Tribe: A group of people connected to one another, connected to a leader, and connected to an idea. For millions of years, human beings have been part of one tribe or another. A group needs only two things to be a tribe: a shared interest and a way to communicate."
    Best-selling author Seth Godin talks a lot about Tribes, which he defines as:

    "a group of people connected to one another, connected to a leader, and connected to an idea. For millions of years, human beings have been part of one tribe or another. A group needs only two things to be a tribe: a shared interest and a way to communicate."

    Women (generally speaking) are really good at tribes. We have lots of shared interests, whether it's spirituality, health and fitness, parenting and of course books (book club is the penultimate example of a tribe). And as a gender we tend to be pretty good at communicating. Personally, my lady tribes  are a huge driving force in my life: there's my church ladies, former professional colleagues (my "indoor" book club, as I call it, fits in this category), my high school friends,my writers group, and my newest lady tribe, my fellow women entrepreneurs. Each of these tribes has its own rituals, shared culture and even secret language. Each time the tribe meets, we always pick up right where we left off, regardless if the last time we met was last week or last year (I haven't seen some of my high school friends in over a decade, but I am still crazy in love with those girls). It's probably not a surprise to anyone that one of the most powerful reasons for starting the Outdoor Book Club is my deep and abiding love for my girlfriends, who form one-third of the Outdoor Book Club's trifecta of awesome: women, books & the outdoors.

    Why are female relationships so powerful? 
    There are a lot of social and psychological reasons, including our shared struggles: the trials of motherhood, the hurt and pain of broken relationships, the anguish of holding ourselves to impossibly high standards, and the trauma of miscarriages and divorces. Of course, we share a lot of joys and passions as well: the euphoria of holding a new infant, the thrill of a great novel and even the pure joy of finding a great pair of boots — on sale.

    What makes a great friendship?
    As a young adult I often gravitated towards girls who were most like me: same age, same music tastes, came from the same kinds of families and background. But as I've aged, I've noticed my friendships have diversified, become richer and more nuanced. My older women friends offer their support and guidance; my younger friends share their fresh perspectives and energy. I have friends who aren't white or straight or have a college degree, and I love the nuance, intelligence and sense of adventure they bring to my life.

    Tips to get the most from your friendships

    Minimize inauthentic relationships. 
    These days I have a pretty low tolerance for friendships that are toxic or somehow just don't feel right. If your friends resist your efforts to improve yourself or change for the better, it's probably a good sign that you should let them go. No hard feelings, just time to move on.

    Be present: Don't overschedule.
    This often means putting away the phone, closing down Facebook, and making the time to schedule face-to-face time. There's freedom in the moments that women friends spend together, where we don't have to be anywhere or pretend to be something we're not. Make time for that.

    Treat your friends like family. 
    Our very best friends can see our shadow sides — and hold us accountable. Fiercely protect those relationships. The best stuff happens when we can connect, converse, laugh, cry and empathize with each other, without judgment.

    Change it up. 
    Another thing that keeps us young is novelty, so while your favorite coffee shop will always hold a special place in your collective heart with your friends, try changing your environment to keep things fresh and fun. Museums, dog parks, new ethnic restaurants and festivals are all great places to add richness and new experiences to your friendships.

    Be yourself.
    My teenage daughter has navigated the murky, dark swamps that are adolescent friendships with an amazing amount of poise. I can't say that I was able to do the same When I was her age, I spent most of my energy with my friends trying to be who I thought they wanted me to be. If you can't be yourself around someone, you'll waste a lot of time and energy on something that's never going to work out. So relax, take a deep breath and be yourself. Everyone likes that version better anyway.

    Author Louise Bernikow: Female friendships that work are relationships in which women help each other belong to themselves. If it's been awhile since you've felt the power of a great group of women, coming together over friendship, invest some time in making sure you help other women learn how to better belong to themselves, and to your tribe.

    Want to spend some quality time with your lady tribes? I can design a weekend or evening for you and your girlfriends, based around your favorite book. Or grab a few friends and join one of our pre-planned tours.

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